How do I choose my therapist?

11/06/2026

How do I choose my therapist? 3 tips for finding the right support

When the decision to seek conversational help has been made, the next challenge often lies ahead: choosing the right professional. There are many different titles available, such as psychiatric nurse, psychotherapist, short-term therapist, and coach. The jungle of choices can feel confusing, and the fear of making the wrong choice might even delay seeking help.

Finding the right expert is crucial, however, because successful cooperation is based on trust and a sense of security. Therapy works best when the chemistry between the therapist and the client matches. So, how do you find the professional who is just right for you? Many different factors influence this.

So, how do you find the professional who is just right for you? Many different factors influence this, but you can use these three tips to help you make your choice.


1. Check the professional's background and education

Anyone can call themselves a therapist, as it is not a legally protected professional title in Finland. Therefore, it is important to check backgrounds. It is safe to look for a professional who has a solid foundational education in the social or healthcare field. For example, a psychiatric nurse's practice as a foundational background guarantees strong clinical expertise and an understanding of mental health challenges, which are supplemented by therapeutic specialization training. A nurse's education also includes a broad understanding of physical illnesses that may be connected to psychological well-being. Other work history also provides additional information about the therapist's expertise.


2. Choose the approach according to your needs

Different therapy orientations suit different situations. If you are looking for a long process lasting years for a deep analysis of the past, Kela-supported psychotherapy might be the right choice. If you want help with current challenges, stress, depression, anxiety, or burnout, solution-focused short-term therapy is often the most effective route. Instead of getting stuck on problems, it focuses on building practical tools for the future—often within just a few sessions.

Most therapists flexibly use tools from different orientations in their work to provide the client with the highest quality service possible. For example, ApuRisto combines solution-focused short-term therapy with cognitive behavioral therapy. Fundamentally, this means utilizing positivity and the client's own expertise regarding their situation from the solution-focused approach. From the cognitive orientation, different tools are utilized for managing thoughts and emotions.


3. Trust your first impression and chemistry

No education can replace how the cooperation feels in practice. A good therapist in Hämeenlinna or via a remote connection is approachable, listening, and humane. You should be able to feel that you are heard exactly as you are, without judgment. Many professionals describe their working methods on their website, which helps you get an idea of their style even before the first contact. If they have shared more about themselves, such as their family, work and life history, or hobbies, it may be easier for you to form an idea of the therapist's personality. It is often worth booking one introductory meeting before making a longer commitment.


ApuRisto – support on your terms

At ApuRisto, the goal is to make the process as straightforward and safe for you as possible. I offer expert and relaxed conversational help based on a background as a psychiatric nurse, flexibly wherever suits you best: at the traditional practice in Hämeenlinna, remotely, from your home, or even while walking in the peace of nature.

You do not need to know everything in advance—it is enough that you come as you are.

Are you wondering if I would be the right person to help you move forward?

Read more about me or book a low-threshold introductory or discussion session directly here.

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